By: Douglas J Utberg

When traveling on the journey of business and life, many people have a natural inclination to structure their activities to avoid mistakes.  This tendency is quite rational, in light of the fact that most of us learn through our education to prevent mistakes whenever possible.  When going through school, we strive for a high grade point average . . . one mistake can blow the average.  When working at a job, we strive to be promoted . . . one mistake can ruin your career.  The incentives that we regularly face condition us to be perpetually risk averse because of the ever present possibility of failure.

The implicit problem of avoiding failure is that it frequently results in avoiding gain also.  Thus, in our desire to avoid moving backward, we also prevent ourselves from moving forward.  The important insight to internalize is that moving forward toward your goals in spite of mistakes is more important than avoiding mistakes altogether.  Entrepreneurs frequently back into this realization when they discover that there are so many things to do that they cannot possibly be done in anything remotely resembling a mistake free manner.  What frequently ends up happening is that the first area of focus is placed on the things that are most critical to sustaining and growing the business, with improvement and refinement done over time.  The contrary version of this concept is the perfectionist obsession that frequently grips people who work at the pleasure of a manager or executive.

Fail Forward

Many people hold onto a notion of success as a linear climb where one step begets another, which begets another, on and on until your goals have been achieved.  This is typical of the linear western thought patterns.  However, the way that we achieve the things we want isn’t always in a steady climb.  Many times we have to try things that don’t work, learn, try again, learn try again, learn and try again until we achieve our goals.  In the linear world, success is simply a process of building on top of what has already been done until the pile is high enough to reach your ambitions.  in the circular world, success is a winding path that we must discover through an uneven process of experimentation.

To many people, this feels like a maddening process.  The ambiguity and uncertainty of discovering the right decision can be very difficult to maintain.  It is impossible to know if success is simply waiting around the corner or whether it is many miles away.  The opportunity that you have been waiting for may be nearly upon you, or it may be disconnected by a vast expanse of distance and time.  This ferocious uncertainty leads many people to give up.

This is where the “Fail Forward” concept comes into play.  It is not reasonably possible to ensure that everything we do will always work out the way we intend.  However, it is possible to ensure that even if we fail, we learn something important that will help us to move closer to our goals and ambitions in the future.  It is inevitable that we will fall as we go throughout life.  However, falling forward instead of falling backward is a characteristic that can have profound impacts on your long-term success.

Gifts vs. Grit

Many people mistakenly believe that great success is solely the result of superior talent.  However, many studies have confirmed that the characteristic shared by elite performers in nearly every walk of life is that they have spent a tremendous amount of time honing and refining their skills.  Some have come to call this the “10 year rule” … stating that exceptional skill can only emerge after 10 years of continued, focused work and practice.  If elite skill can only be built with this much persistence, it stands to reason that “failing forward” is a critical part of this continued development process.

When people talk about the value of persistence, what they are really referring to is the willingness to push through difficulty, uncertainty, and failure to reach your goals.  Consistently moving forward, even if it does not always feel like your movements are taking you directly toward your goal is the key characteristic that separates the exceptional from the average.  In fact, it provides a significant degree of comfort to those of average abilities, because it shows that an abundance of perseverance can frequently overcome a deficiency of talent.  In many cases, it is talent that starts a person on the path toward elite skill, but it is continued persistent work that takes them to their goal.  If you lack talent, you can substitute consistent, focused effort.

It is truly unfortunate that we have become so conditioned to avoid mistakes.  It is the mistakes that allow us to learn and grow, and ultimately what lay the foundation for greater achievements.  This effect pervades our personal, professional, and financial lives.  It is a dichotomy that many people will need to overcome if they are going to achieve their goals and ambitions.

Fundamentally, this dichotomy comes down to a “Job” mentality of avoiding mistakes, in contrast to an “Entrepreneur” mentality of discovering the ingredients necessary for success.  In the context of our personal, professional, and investment endeavors it is frequently more beneficial to ‘fall forward’ than to ‘hold back’ . . . especially in consideration of the fact that our financial future is becoming more uncertain, and it is becoming less and less likely that our employer, government, or 401k will be able to provide for our future.  Thus, it becomes the responsibility of each individual person to ensure that they are consistently moving forward.